When using two hands, you can do it a few different ways:. A big part of Sacred Sexuality is learning to love the penis and not be afraid. Both hands hold the penis in the same direction with the fingers pointing the same way. It will heighten your sexual intuitionyoull be more aware of what your partner wants without him having to ask. His legs should be spread apart with his knees bent, so you have easy access to all parts of his genitalia. By bringing a partner pleasure through his wand of light, we are filled with that same energy or light in a conscious exchange of energy in giving and receiving pleasure. Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to wand of light. One hand holds the penis facing one way and the other hand faces the other way. Encourage your partner to breathe deeply. Have your partner lie on his back wherever he is most comfortable. Thats whats supposed to happen. Prostate massage can sometimes be difficult to do with fingers, which is why so many sex toy companies now sell prostate massagers that you can use when youre ready to take it to the next level. Be careful with the balls. Nos massages sont harmonieux et délicats. Parue dans rencontres, echange Massage Tantrique.c, détails 06 - Alpes-Maritimes. Antibes, passionné depuis plus de 30 ans par le massage tantrique je recherche donc des personnes qui comme moi ont. You can also use a circular massage motion.